The condition for hover effect?

There is a menu of 5 items, to all items applies the hover effect. I need to make 1 menu item static was filled with color, but when hovering over other items, hover for the first item was cancelled. Is it possible to do only through css?

.cat_menu a:hover,.cat_menu a:active{
 color: #ffffff !important;
 background: #098DC4;
April 4th 20 at 14:18
2 answers
April 4th 20 at 14:20
elem:hover: not(:first-child){

so like
April 4th 20 at 14:22
Thank you all for the answers!
Managed to solve it this way

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